Is it normal that when I'm looking for a guy/relationship I want to feel the lust, with the guy or while rel?

I am looking for that hot Sexy feeling when I'm with the guy I'm in a relationship with, am I normal? am I a slut? I'm asian and living in asia and the country is not so liberated as other country is.. I find lust appealing and ideal when choosing a guy I'm going to go for? am I a bad girl/bad person please be honest?